MsJames I don't blame you for needing a vent, that sounds like a terrible situation! I can't really think of any new adive to offer you, I think the ladies above have hit the nail on the head. It's your house, you get to call the shots. This is such a special time in your life and you should be able to do it your way and feel as comfortable as possible in your own house. Just because they are staying in your house doesn't mean you have to be their maid, if they don't like not being looked after 24/7 then they can leave....*crosses fingers** ;p