Hi Ali, I agree with the PP's. It's ultimately up to you and your DP. I have been getting the same thing the minute I announced the pregnancy. Oddly, no comments from our families as none of our brothers and sisters are married, but still in relationships with kids. The comments I get are from friends and I usually just say "When DP proposes" or I just shrug my shoulders and say that we're in no hurry, just enjoying everything we have now with the new baby.