yep, we had that too.

we were due to get married in the month that leila was due to be born (the wedding was actually planned before she was!). so we held off, but the pressure came in thick and fast. and once she was born people were tapping their watches. we ended up getting hitched when she was 6 months old. although it was really great, we both wish that we had of waited. like you, we had been together for 7 years so we felt no need to rush, and in the end, the wedding was really stressful (with a new bub!) and we really really wish we had of waited until we were ready, not when the others were ready. it was too much to organise and juggle when you have a new person in your lives.

i reckon you should stick to your guns and do what is best for you and your new family of three...