I wasn't phased with DD as i knew she was a girl. Then my 20 week scan came along and people were telling me i was having a boy as i carried all out the front so when the lady asked me if i wanted to know i said YES! she didnt even have to tell me i could see for myself.

A friend of mine said that people wont be excited if we find out when the baby is born, she says they will see it as "woo they had the baby, what else is new" which i think is wrong i know our familes are very excited about new babies, we have all found out what we were having except for one SIL who couldn't the baby wasnt willing to show and we all were over the moon when we had babies.