You can always get them to write it down and seal it in an envelope that way if you are still unsure tomorrow but want to know the next day you can find out

I didn't want to know with Kameron but foudn out accidently and was happy that we did. We never told anybody though what we were having. We then found out with the other 2 boys and told everyone.
Yes, I could do that but unlike Rachel...I would have no chance of that envelope remaining unopened even to this weekend..rofl.

If I found out accidentally then to me the decision was kinda made by fate IYKWIM? As I said to DH...bubs might be rude like Ryn's and show us his/her butt...lol...or be modest (although don't like the chances with DH for the father - yes I said that to him and he laughed) and have his/her legs crossed.

This is soooo hard...I was talking to DH this arvo and I think part of what is making it so hard is that we haven't had any scans before this one..so as I put it to him - it's kinda like being in labour and seeing for the first time if that makes sense?? I think if I'd had an earlier scan and already seen bubs then I probably wouldn't be wrestling with this so bad.

Thanks for your input - I will go and think about this more no doubt...lol

Michelle, I will try to post what happens in the afternoon so you can get a chance to read before you go on your lovely holiday