I just wanted to bump this as im having the exact same dilema. When pregnant with Hendrix i just knew that i didnt want to know. This time around im obsessed and feel that it is all consuming. Should i or shouldnt i find out?? I suppose the thing that is worrying me with finding out is that i wont have the same desire to meet this little person during labour? Is that insane? When hendy was raised out of the birthing pool and laid on my chest, DH and i were so mesmerised that we didnt even think to look and see what he 'was' it just wasnt important at that stage. Would i be taking that magic away if i knew??? All your opinions are greatly needed.
Especially those who didnt find out then did with subsequent!