We didn't find out with DS#1. With DS#2 we decided on our way to the scan to find out but it was never something we were going to make known to everyone. In the end a few close people to me did know before the birth (Parents & in-laws not included). This time around i am SOOOO tempted but also know i would love to have the surprise at the end. Still yet to have any scans so again it may be something we just end up deciding on the day.

Having done it both ways i can't really say i liked one way better than the other. At the end of the journey we got our beautiful little miracles and that's all that matters to us. The curiosity in me is what's making me want to know what this little one is but that is it, everything else can wait until after the bubba comes.

So to answer your questions i never had any regrets in not knowing what DS1 was or knowing what DS2 was it was a beautiful journey both ways. And i know whatever we decide with this little one it will be right and just as much a special journey as the first two. I do suggest that if you find out what you are having keep it to yourselves as much as you can. Even though you know, it does keep the suspence until the end for everyone else.

Good luck i hope i was a little help for you xo