I certainly dont think its a rude question, i was going to ask the same thing. My ob with all my pregnancys wanted to with first bub do a caesare then the second bub either induction or caesare and same with the last bub. He want to do a caesar at 38 weeks but when it got past that time he wanted to induce me. Im sure it was all to get me done and out the way because when i asked 'give me a medical reason' he couldnt answer me so with all 3 i said 'no'. You are not a patient but a visitor to that hospital to have that child and you have every right to say how the birth will go.

Of course if there is a medical reason then you have to listen for the sake of you and your unborn child but if there is no reason why go through with it. Its unfortunate that mums arent encouraged to say what they want when delivering. I think when its your first to then we are taken advantage of because we have know idea so we do as we are told.

Im thinking this is the line you thinking Antheia?