I found out, although my story is a little different. I definitely wanted a boy second time around but more than that I just didn't want to be pregnant. My DD1 was only 3 months old, we had had a really rocky start and I just wasn't ready. Finding out helped me adjust to the disappointment of having another girl, and also shop specifically for her so that I could try to get excited by her existence.

This time round I won't be finding out. I couldn't care less what sex this baby is - just thrilled if we're blessed with a beautiful healthy baby.