Caro, i would like another because our kids are such a joy to have and i have time to make another (just) and i dont want to miss out, Lol or regret not going again. I adore our kids. They are both good kids and i enjoy being there mum and im greatfull that i have them.
We went through the same indecision with #2 but not this bad. I probably am hesitant because of DH but thats only because i dont want him to agree to something he isnt comfortable with either.