Have you regretted having more??

[*Efjay*]

That is a good point about having someone else to play with if your fighting with the other. Also about your kids as adults. I have never looked into the future that way. I have often thought about what kind of adults they will be & what type of work they will be in. Evan I see as a computer tech of some sort with an interest in music. But more in the way of creating/writing music with the computers being involved in someway.
Glenn I actually see as a nurse, also involved in music, but in the loud, banging type-Drums maybe lol. Glenn is going to be a little beefhead type I think. Does anyone watch ER? You know the guy on that show who I think he is a nurse type guy, but he is a big fellow. Thats Glenn. Thats how I see him, A gentle giant of sorts I guess. Its funny actually these are things I have had a "feeling" about from when they were babies. Its not something I have just made up for them, its what I see for them in my minds eye IYKWIM. I oculd be wrong, I could be right. But what I do know for sure is that what ever my children decide to do in life they will have the support & encouragement to achive there dreams.

Kerrie maybe the best thing to do is to sit back & see what life dishes out for you. Don't overly actively TTC#3, but don't do anything to prevent it either. I know it would be hard to just sit back & let it happen if thats what is meant to be. BUT give it a go for a few months & if you find that you are still paying alot of attention to your cycles & second guessing if & when you O's & you DTD etc, then I think its a pretty clear that you want a third. Tell DH the same thing. "lets just see what happens" If he is also still bring it up in a few months then I think you can both rest assure that its what you want.
As for being able to cope with 3 on your own the most of the time. You know what, have you seen/heard the slogan "I make milk, whats your super power?" ? I think a more appropriate one is "I am a mother, whats your super power?". We can do anything, why would you ever doubt that you can't?