my mother is very religous and brought me up to be against abortion...she doesn't even know I was pregnant the first time and would never even think of me considering an abortion...none of my family would...My mother always wanted me to be married and have children that way...premarital sex upset her enough, even though she has finally begun to except that we have been together so long, she still tells me her concerns that she wants him to commit to me! Though I tell her he has, but we have been going slowly. When we first got together, she was concerned about his "baggage" and even said, what if you get pregnant and he leaves you! He was so adamant that he wanted me to terminate it, I didn't even get the chance to tell him how I felt and he was not in the mood to listen! I feel so alone...