Kafer Girl - you are so not a failure. Of all the things that are getting you through the day, an Iced Coffee is the worst you can do??? Seriously, it would be great if we could all adhere to the long list of dos & don'ts that are published for pg girls to follow, but the problem with these "rules/guidelines/recommendations" is that they don't take into account what you actually feel like when you're pregnant, and how some days you just gotta do what is going to get you through.

As for your DH, well, as you said, he's fine & very understanding, so that's a great start. There are plenty of other, non-sexual ways to show him how much he means to you, just being kind & interested in his day is a good, and relatively easy thing to. My DF spent most of the time just wanting to look after me, and that worked for us, cos it gave him something "important" to do.

And pffft to the house - you've got piles of clean clothes? Well great - they're clean, and they'll be that way whether they're in the washing basket or in the cupboard. And whilst it's nice to live in a clean tidy house (okay, really nice), at the end of the day it's a small thing compared to m/s & tiredness, and there's a really good reason why you have the m/s & tiredness, so I would say look after this reason first, worry about the house when you can.