Thanks Artemis thant makes me feel a bit better knowing its not just my bubs hiding... Is just so dissapointing especially when family and friends know your off to have a scan and when you get home the phones going crazy with everyone asking and you have no news to tell them except bubs is ok... I know thats the important thing and sex doesnt matter but when you have your heart set on finding out or even have just made the decision to find out then get told sorry we cant tell you today or worse my first scan the lady said "if i had to GUESS i'd say girl" knowing full well i have a son with me and its my only child ATM and knowing that i said i'd love a girl... Why say anything at all... why not just say nothing....

Well my next appointment is for the 8th January so i guess its last chance... Like its not a huge deal if we dont find out but now that we want to know it would be nice to find out.....