Anila, i couldnt read and not post cause this is p***ing me off!!
not you lol or anyone here but that building built called a hospital...

How dare they do this and treat you like this.... who the h*** do these people think they are?
i would take it further stuff them!! You have birthed there previously and now your just another number? so sad...
You mentioned you birthed there and your BMI was 47 and now your 46 and they are refusing?
Do you have that info anymore? cause that would be a great document to throw in their face and also request a copy of your records to show it obviously hasnt been like this for years...

I would say yeah loose weight but its hard and im not one to say do something that i know is hard when your not pregnant so i couldnt imagine while pregnant..
I think your DH is p***ed that everything has become chaotic but still doesnt excuse him for being so disrespectful...anger or no anger that is no way to talk to the mother of your children and ecspecially while carrying one of them too..
Tell him keep his willy in his pants and satisfy himself next time if thats the case.
And this is definently about YOU!!! the whole thing is about you and will be till you birth that baby.. its not an easy job.. and for a hospital that is meant to be supporting their patients they are doing a great job of ruining a persons life and home life..

Babe chin up and smile, no one or anything will ever change whats happening inside of you, and the idiots that are ruining your precious time, well lets say karma is a b****...
xoxox