My husband & I are fighting because my hospital refused me, & i don't know what to do

[*Sparklez*]

Anila, i couldnt read and not post cause this is p***ing me off!!
not you lol or anyone here but that building built called a hospital...

How dare they do this and treat you like this.... who the h*** do these people think they are?
i would take it further stuff them!! You have birthed there previously and now your just another number? so sad...
You mentioned you birthed there and your BMI was 47 and now your 46 and they are refusing?
Do you have that info anymore? cause that would be a great document to throw in their face and also request a copy of your records to show it obviously hasnt been like this for years...

I would say yeah loose weight but its hard and im not one to say do something that i know is hard when your not pregnant so i couldnt imagine while pregnant..
I think your DH is p***ed that everything has become chaotic but still doesnt excuse him for being so disrespectful...anger or no anger that is no way to talk to the mother of your children and ecspecially while carrying one of them too..
Tell him keep his willy in his pants and satisfy himself next time if thats the case.
And this is definently about YOU!!! the whole thing is about you and will be till you birth that baby.. its not an easy job.. and for a hospital that is meant to be supporting their patients they are doing a great job of ruining a persons life and home life..

Babe chin up and smile, no one or anything will ever change whats happening inside of you, and the idiots that are ruining your precious time, well lets say karma is a b****...
xoxox

[Anila]

I just posted this in my other thread, thought id re post it here too.....
and hubby and i are doing better too

So just when i had given in and taken a deap breath and accepted the hospital decision, made peace with myself and decided to go to another hospital, i get a call from the social worker at the hospital...

She is going to be my advocate, she said she is behind me 200% and is going to try and help me get my answers and get my case reviwed!! Im excited, i know i cant get my hopes up because they can say no, but to finally have someone on my side, someone to help me actaully speak up, i am just so greatful!!

We are meeting on friday to discuss things, meanwhile she has requested that i see my file, so i have to go to records and request a copy from 3 years ago, she is also meeting with the dietition, and told me not to book into another hospital till we get to the 36 week mark and then put preasure on the drs!!!

So i have to work really hard to try to loose a few kilos, and make sure my mind stays in a positive frame!!

Thanks to everyone on bb, i shall keep u all informed

[kitten2b]

thats positive to have someone on your side within the hospital. Hape all goes well and you can birth where you want to.

[Kamarine]

I'm glad you've got someone on your side there.

Hoping that you get what you want xxx