My turn to freak out. *may be distressing*

[*EJ*]

That's so good to hear Santosha, great that you feel like you can relax and enjoy your time being pregnant now. As i was reading i was wondering if you had found out the sex. I didn't with my first but did with my second and third and i found that there was more bonding involved prior to the birth. All equally loved once they arrive of course but just different during pregnancy. Enjoy and stay healthy and well xoxoxo

[Santosha]

Thanks EJ. Yes, we did find out the sex (hehehe not telling though!!) and it has helped with forming a bond. At this rate this little one will NEVER have a name though. DH and I had agreed on one if it was the other gender, but as things stand, can't agree on anything for this one!

[Possums]

I am so glad you are feeling better. I found the 18 week scan really helped us too, and we also found out the sex and can't agree on a name...yet :-) I think it helps with the bond. Sometimes when you have been exposed to loss it just makes you put your guard up more.

[MrsBexie]

Yay for feeling better!!! ooh a secret!

[damprye]

DS has also said the same thing with this pregnancy and i have finally began to feel something for this baby but it does still feel distant yet at other times I can just relax and live in the moment. So how long you keeping the secret?