I should explain why I am asking.

There were different partners involved. I'm a single mother, and whomever the father is isn't really the biggest of my concerns. I'm unsure of what I'm going to do. Try and raise another on my own, maybe the father will step up? Adoption is lingering in my mind, I don't think the other A word is an option for me after my past experiences and morals now.

Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated. Thanks PZ, jas, CQ & tashy for your contribution thus far.