Oh Hun, that all sounds very overwhelming and confusing. And poo to mr suspected-father (to put it as nicely as possible)... way to disrespect your choices and the incredibly difficult situation you find yourself in. Sending you huuuuuuuuuuge hugs and a virtual glass of wine (since the real thing may be off the cards for a while but you sooo deserve a drink!). xox
Take time to think it through. You're in a very difficult position so don't rush anything. Do you have friends you can talk to or maybe see a counsellor about how you'll manage, what ever you decide? Also, I imagine it's a shock to him finding out today. He may change his mind, or he may not. Firstly, you have to decide what you want to do and a counsellor may be the best way to start.
It's understandable he'll want a paternity test. I may be wrong, but that may be able to be done via amnio during pregnancy, which includes it's own range of risks. Otherwise anytime after birth.
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