Thanks ladies it was really interesting reading all your replies,

we have already decided this next baby won't be wrapped as we found the transition with DD painful. I will BF on demand as I did with DD. Dh doesn't want me BF to sleep with the next one but honestly I think it will happen regardless of what he wants.

The next baby won't have a choice it will just have to adapt to our routine as DD does scheduled activites (playgroup and swimming) so thats already very different.

I agree the one on one time will be very very important and I love the ideas about giving DD something to do while bubby feeds so thanks so much for the ideas

Thanks again lovelies x x x x