ahh you girls have some great comebacks!

when i tell ppl (ppl being my family- cousins etc) of our miscarriage, i get 'were you trying or was it a surprise?' i get a little offended by that, because i think, a miscarriage is a miscarriage, whether or not we were trying, or it was a surprise, or even if it wasnt wanted (just for the record, it was a WELCOMED surprise that we were pregnant) we just lost a baby! what does it matter! grr anyways, thats just my pet peev at the moment!