I have found something WORSE than people asking "was it an accident?"
You know whats worse !!!????...
SOME RUDE PEOPLE that I have talked haven't asked me the question... instead they just carry on the conversation ASSUMING that it WAS an accident. THE NERVE!!!!! It has made me so angry.
Maybe I am a bit hormonal and irrational (its been known to happen) but for crying out loud, some people just have no idea. I am generally a peacemaker in our circle of family of friends. I dont offend easily, I am quite thick skinned to negative comments, and so far I have politely corrected those who had it wrong..... but I tell you what.... one day.... very soon.... kaboom!
I work at a Catholic school and my boss has gossiped the news around despite me asking them not to. I was "taboo"anyway becuase I was living with Kim (my partner) and unmarried but now I am pg too...oh my god all hell breaks loose.
Sometimes I want people to mind their own damned business...OR if you really want to know if I am pregnant and if it was planned (which it was), come straight out and ask me honestly. Stop beating around the bush and looking at my gut when you talk to me...I'm fat anyway, you won't see a baby bump for ages!
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