OK. Time for me to have a big VENT!!!!!

I have found something WORSE than people asking "was it an accident?"

You know whats worse !!!????...

SOME RUDE PEOPLE that I have talked haven't asked me the question... instead they just carry on the conversation ASSUMING that it WAS an accident. THE NERVE!!!!! It has made me so angry.

Maybe I am a bit hormonal and irrational (its been known to happen) but for crying out loud, some people just have no idea. I am generally a peacemaker in our circle of family of friends. I dont offend easily, I am quite thick skinned to negative comments, and so far I have politely corrected those who had it wrong..... but I tell you what.... one day.... very soon.... kaboom!