I was just having a bath and having a bit of a think - do you think the part 'your pregnancy will be over before you are truly ready to let go' could be implying i might go premmie? I know i am probably looking into it too much and it's probably just a crock.. but i am so fearful of going premmie.

While i was in the bath, i also thought about the ladies who were wanting to find out the sex of there bubbies but hadn't gone for their 19week scan yet etc. Do you gals have your 13 week scan on dvd or something? I can tell you the method my clinic uses, who told myself and two other girls from my BB pg group the sex of our bubbies, i also have two girlfriends who went there during their pregnancies and the same method was used and was accurate for the birth of their babies. I have my baby scan pic you can compare it with (said to be a girl) and another from another lady in my BB group (said to be a boy).. if you guys would like more info, let me know or send me an email.
BTW - my sonologist told me that this method is actually more accurate than the 19week scan, as sometimes there can be confusion with genital swelling etc.