We also allowed time for our pets to meet our DS under our supervision, so they got to know that he was a new member of our 'pack'. We let them sniff him and didn't tell them off for going near him as we were there monitoring what was going on. It was actually interesting to see how they reacted.
The cat was quite indifferent, didn't like the crying so basically stayed out of the way. She doesn't now, she'll go and rub herself on him and has no problem with him being near her (unless she's in a mood!!)
The dog wasn't quite sure what to make of him either, but was certainly curious and took the time to check him out. He always wanted to greet him when we got home, just as he did to us. And when he cried he would go and get one of his toys and toss it for him (like he was trying to make him better by sharing his toys). We had to watch that he only brought stuffed toys, not his Kong!! But the two of them are now best friends and play all sorts of games together and I never feel anxious watching them play. Of course I keep the supervision up but I really feel that the dog is just as protective of Jett as he is of us.
The other important thing is to allow your dog to remove herself for timeout when she needs. This might be her bed, or a different room, or even outside, but somewhere where your child can not get to them while they are there IYKWIM. I know that might seem a long way off, but it is good to think ahead and plan if you need to.
Goodluck! I'm sure they will grow up great friends too!
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