Oh MummyTummy, you sure have one cat with serious 'tude there! Love cats like that even though they're a challenge at times! I have one like that myself, but lucky he's not a snuggler. He'd get grumpy at a wriggly baby disturbing his peace, and stalk off lol!

Only other thing I can think of is a good hiss in her face as you remove her? I used to do that with my little "I own the world" fella, and he understood mummy=boss! I also did it with roads, and to this day, he has pretty good road sense. I'm assuming she's not a swipey girl (might just want to make sure you have a good hold before you try it!). You feel mean doing it, but it does seem to work.

The only other thing I've heard, my neighbour got a sensor which set off an unpleasant noise when the cats went past...? Think he bought it online somewhere.

Good luck, love to hear how you go!

As well as my 'tude cat, I've also got an older snuggly female lapcat plus a 2.5 y.o belgian shepherd (female) so we're looking forward to seeing how they all integrate with our bubba. Snuggly lapcat never goes in my nursery which is good. And I think puppy will love bubba, the only risk is too much energy (and sloppy tongue!), but temperamentally I think she'll be fine as she's never been jealous at all. So saying, I haven't set up my nursery yet, so will be interesting to see if I have to try any of your tactics!