I am wondering if I should have one also. This is baby #2, not counting my first cause she is now 12 ... so is i greedy to have another one? No one has offered to throw me one. I didn't organise my first one and was a bit dissapointed ... no games and not the invite I was hoping for, but SIL did go to a lot of trouble with food and decos. I guess I just had something different in mind.