I dont think your being selfish at all joey! I never had one for DD, no one threw one for me, but ive been to ALOT in the past year, and figure that if its ok for everyone else to have them, then i can too!

My problem is DF and I are really picky with what style we have, we like modern things, and I know this may sound ungrateful to others, but we do not expect others to buy anything at all, we were talking about buying everything we wanted then having a list of things we need that people can choose from..... I've been to baby showers that have a cot as a gift right down to a magazine!

Im still so undecided, and was hoping this thread would help me make my mind up I might visit the idea again in a few months to see how I feel about it ...

Thanks everyone