oh man,
this is our well established health system in the year 2008!!!!

i am glad you are educated enough and stood up for yourself. but rather then fighting the mother, there should be a "together" to achieve the best outcome for all (and also-a VBAC is a lot cheaper for the health system than a c/s...).
i guess, it is like you are a "number". there are too little docs having too little time for each patient, cost cutting everywhere....
i hope all goes well and maybe bubby decides to come before the 40 week app. anyway
fingers crossed

lila