Holy crap Tan, what was that Dr thinking (oh right she obviously wasn't).

Can you request a different doctor??? I would definitely write a letter and complain about her. If she is this uncaring then maybe she is in the wrong profession.

I would go with whomever makes you feel comfortable and relaxed and supports your decisions. It sounds like your M/W's are doing that.

Don't let her take away your empowerment. The only time anyone has power over us is when we give it to them.

Take care hun

Kim