I think it's helpful to find out for the first baby - everything else is so new and unsettled - its nice to have that firm bit of knowledge that you will have a son or daughter at the end of it all.

I found out my first was a girl at 23 weeks only to give birth to a boy - so I got double the suprise!!

So even if you do find out - it certainly aint set in concrete so don't buy too much - that's my advice!!

Enjoy your pregnancy!!