This is my first baby and we both HAD to know whether it was a boy or a girl. For me, I desperately wanted a little girl first, so when I found out that we were having a boy - I really had to focus on the positives of having a little boy. If I hadn't found out and had a boy by surprise - I don't know how I would have reacted. On saying all this - I am thrilled to be having a boy now and am soooo glad that I found out! I have been talking to him for months now and feel very close to my unborn son.

Good Luck with your decision!

Megan