First I hope this is the right place....please move if needed.

DH & I want 2 kids and we always wanted to have them fairly close together...we are always told being close in age is good, etc & so on.

Thing is Charlie is now 15months old & the thought of having another baby scares the pants off me for so many reasons...to the point that I get anxious just thinking about it. Is this normal LOL (what is normal) - has anyone else felt this way?

Now that I know what happens in labour etc I'm very scared of what can go wrong, even though first time round it was all fine. Before it was the unknown & now it's the known.

Charlie is not a great sleeper & things were very tough in the first few months. We don't live near any family & some times I don't handle things the best. I've actually been thinking I would just love to spoil Charlie & have no more kids...but I would love him to have a playmate. We've been talking about trying again soon as the gap now will be at least 2yrs provided all went well..........but I'm just to scared to start.