So confused. i dont know what to do

[Antheia]

Welcome to BB. I see you are from Aberglasslyn. I'm from Cessnock, so pretty close. You can PM me whenever you like if you want to have a chat.

This is your baby and your body. No one at all can make you do want you don't want to do. If you want to keep the baby, then stand your ground and say this is not on. You don't deserve to be treated this way and neither does your child. This may mean the end of your relationship and as hard as that may be, maybe it would be healthier? I don't know. Men are strange creatures. I know when I first fell pregnant DH wanted me to terminate. But he did come around and now we have 4 beautiful children together. Sometimes it works out, sometimes not. But ultimately, this is your choice and no one elses.

[Ahurani]

Oh wow I could have written your post about 2 - 3 years ago.

I ended up going the termination route, I was young, silly and really wanted the baby but DP was dead against it. Do I regret it? Of course I do, even though I'm pregnant now, I still think back at the what ifs.

You need to make sure this is something YOU want. Because if it isnt your going to spend a long time guilty and feeling regretful. I know I did.

If you want to pm me that's fine

[sasha]

Congratulations on your pregnancy! I don't have any other advice to add to that which has been given by the others, but just wish you lots of love and support.