HI, i have a dilema.

i am 32 weeks pregnant. a close friend of mine has her DS's birthday party next weekend, him and my DS are good mates. i just found out her sister has swine flu. im not sure her sister will be coming to the party, but even if she dosent her kids and also my friends mum will be there, all of which have had close contact with her.

the party is at a small party room at one of these play centres, so in a confined space. if it was outside i wouldnt be worried as much.

now i know you can catch it from anywhere, going shopping etc etc but this would be knowingly putting myself at risk, if that makes sense?? i do not feel comfortable going now knowing this, and i wouldnt send my DS with DH instead of me, cause its exposing them to the risk too and then they could pass it to me. so it looks like we wont go. i havent told my friend yet, but i know shes going to be really really annoyed and will probably think i am just being silly.

what would you do?