Just to further drive the point home, I agree with everyone else about telling them now. The fact that you're asking the question shows that you WANT to tell them, and I completely understand the fear of having to make 'that' announcement - I've done it 3 times now. I still tell everyone, coz then they understand why I hibernate until a certain gestation, and the support has been overwhelming. The first time round I had to tell my mum about the pregnancy and the miscarriage in the same phone call, which for me, sucked harder than just telling her about the miscarriage.

Scary times hun, sending lots of sticky vibes