Michelle

She's your MIL, remember MILs are a strange breed and their main aim in life is to bewilder you and unintentionally hurt you with their thoughtless words and actions...... or is that just mine

Wait until you announce number 4, i got stunned silence from my Mum who then said what do you want more for, the MIL said the usual "well i wont be happy if its not a girl this time", and i really wondered why i'd bothered telling either of them. If we find out what we are having i'll not tell them as i know the reaction from both of them will either be... oh dear another boy or oh a girl at least you can stop trying now.... i find that many older people have this idea in their head that once you have one of each then thats it you shouldn't have any more, it seems as though to them having one of each is what you strive for in having children, plus i'm sure the idea of falling pregnant unintentionally is just unimaginable to some of them I can imagine my MIL coming out with "goodness you have a boy and a girl what are you bothering sharing a bed for".

Ignore her and vow never to be as insensitive to your own DIL

Taz