Sweetie, So sorry you are going through this. and finally your DH is with you in the grieving. May you find the love and healing you need tonight with your family.
We just had our special little ceremony, the kids all wrote a note or drew a picture to baby, and read them out, then dan and i said our words of love, dan had bought 3 candles, 1 for me to light and 1 for him and grace and 1 for him and hunter.
We lite the candles and sat for a while, i think as i already knew what had happened i have already done my grieveing, but dan is taking this very hard, i have never seen him cry so much, so in a way i, glad that i have grieved, so i can help him.
Grace who is 7 is taking it very hard also, she has cried all after noon.
she made lots of little circles and drew love hearts on them and placed them in a box, when she feels sad or thinks about the baby, she will put a heart into a bag.
a little later i will type the letter and poem that grace has written, it is very beautiful and i would love to share it with u all, i have asked grace and she said it was ok.
I am so sorry that this has happened. Nothing I can say will make the pain any easier, but know that you have support and love from all of us here.
Sounds like a beautiful ceremony you had and a great way for the kids to say goodbye because it must be hard on them as well. What a lovely way to remember your precious little angel.
anila, i am already emotional today and your last couple of posts just tipped me over.
i am so very sorry for you loss. i think dan is a sweet man and i am glad he is there for you. lean on each other and grieve together.
remember that i don't live too far away and if you need company or a hug im here.
i can't wait to read graces poem.
This is graces poem..
Please remember that she is only 7 years old.
Dear baby in mums tummy, this is for you.
I love you baby
I wish i could see you baby
I love you up high
I love you down low
I love you where ever you go
I hope i will always remember you
Cute little guy
I hope you can hear the sounds of us crying
I really didnt want you to die
As soon as i hear that
Im sure to burst out and cry
I love you baby
I never wanted u to die
I love you baby
I never wanted u to die
I love you so much
Cute little thing
I love you baby
I never wanted you to die.
and this is graces letter to baby, as she was reading it, she placed her special circles with hearts into a bag.
Dear baby
I love you so much, I was looking forward to meeting you.
I hope you will always remember me.
I hope that you will look down on me and help me when ever i need help, and to help me be more smarter than what i am now.
I love you so much and every time i remember you i will put a circle or love hearts with some colours on them and put it in a bag.
I love you so much.
I wish you will look down on me when ever i need help.
I love you.
Love Grace.
ps. I was looking forward to seeing you.
I love my family very much.
Dans boss has given him tomorrow off work as well.
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and finally your DH is with you in the grieving. May you find the love and healing you need tonight with your family.
i think dan is a sweet man and i am glad he is there for you. lean on each other and grieve together.
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