I prefer a slightly bigger gap to the above girls. I feel that way I can give my attention out abit more evenly, iykwim. So Joel and Brandon are 2years and 9 months apart. Then I have a 7 year gap - new relationship. Then Noah and Tehya who are 2years and 10 months apart

Of course I have nothing against mums who have their babies close, more power to you I say, but it's just not for me.