Hi Kristee-Lea Its a really interesting topic, I see this has been debated on some of the morning TV talk shows recently. I think on one of them they had this psychologist on and he seemed to think 3-4 years apart was ideal.

However, you of course get parents who had a much closer, or bigger gap and swear that is perfect!

I personally however, am not sure we even want a second, but if we do a bigger gap, like 4-5 years would be what we'd like.

Cathy