I am feeling a bit the same as you, we are now starting the process for hopefully #2 after 1 fresh and 3 FET's (7 emby's in total) to get our DD. We have 8 little frosties waiting for us and I'm in a strange headspace of thinking.... I hope we are successful first go and then also wanting to use all our frosties as the "what if" will probably be the hardest thing to get my head around.

My DH only wants preferably 2 little kidlets, although we have chosen to have 2 embryo's transferred as this is what we did to get DD and if we do happen to have twins then it would be a bonus. Saying that... if we did end up having all girls and if we still had any embryo's on ice I think I would be curious if any of those would be boys. Such a hard decision to make and I am dreading the possiblity of having to make such a decision myself.

Good luck with whatever you choose and I suppose you can always look at the upside that you still have some time before you need to make a decision and in the meantime things might change on the money front and then you might be able to move forward with using your little frostie.