we've not bothered - there is no way in hell i'm going on the OCP given the reaction i've had to it in the past, we're not AGAINST the idea of more, so meh, it will happen if it's meant to. given it took 3+years to get DD (and a multitude of intervention and surgery) it's not likely, and we won't be going back to AC unless some wealthy benefactor shows up - so we're leaving it up to nature. not trying, but not avoiding. almost two years and no pregnancies so i doubt it's gonna happen in a hurry.

i'm sure there will come a point for us as a couple where we decide that more children at this stage is just not viable, and we'll look at options (DH is an old fart lol) but until then, we run the "risk" of pregnancy every time we're together, and that's fine with us