Hi girls.

Obviously like you all, we were LTTTC, I have a bit of question and I need some honest opinions.

I hate DD being out of my sight and everyone seems to want to keep taking her! My mum keeps pushing DH and me to go out while DD stays at her house, I continually refuse as I dont want to leave her and my mother is a big fan of letting babies cry it out or at least cry for an extended time. Last week my aunty picked up DD and said she was going to take her outside as she was upset, I asked her not go out in the 40 degree heat with her and she did anyway, I was nearly in tears! my other aunty saw what was happening and went and got her.
I dont mind anyone having a cuddle or chat to DD but I do not want people to keep taking her away from me! I am happy with what ever DH does with her, if he has her outside or Im outside but I dont even want to leave her with him while I go out (I know he is quite capable) but what if she gets upset and he can't settle her? I hate hearing her cry her heart out.

In the hospital the midwives continually tried to take her to the nursery and even snuck in the room on several occasions and thought they would take her to the nursery anyway, telling me I wasnt meant to wake up when they came in! Then they told me and DH to have a day pass while we left 'the baby' at the hospital.....um, no I dont think so thankyou very much.

I have had nightmares since we have been home where I wake up hysterical that someone has taken her and DH has to reassure me she is still there

So I guess in this long winded post, I am wondering if anyone else felt similar to me? Did you hate your very precious little one away from you or is something wrong with me??? Will I eventually ease back or am I going to cause my DD to be a maladjusted little girl??? Any thoughts would be great.

Thanks ladies xx