Please tell me this is normal.....

[MummaSue]

I am constantly in the bathroom looking for blood, analysing every twinge, checking my (.)(.) are still sore...... why can't I just relax?

My last miscarriage happened on a sunday evening and I am just terrified of this happening again. I hate sundays!!

Tomorrow is the 5 week mark..... my FS has booked me in for my first scan at 6w4d. That seems AGES away! How will I make it through.

I feel like I'm just torturing myself with the thoughts of my last pregnancy.

Help!
S X

[lauren22]

I know what you mean hun,
Im examining my belly to see if ive got a bump and when i saw the tiniest spot of blood i freaked out. Im right here with you and lets both try and relax and let our bodies do what they need to.

[Chocaholic]

Sounds absolutely perfectly normal to me.



I hope time flies until your scan.

Good luck!

[MummaSue]

Thanks girls. I just feel so scared. I hate that I've had a m/c before because it is ruining my current pregnancy!!

AARRGGHHH!

Thanks for your support.
Sue x

[Frosty's mum]

It's entirely normal. Sieving through the crinone clumps to check for blood stain etc. Even doing HPT to check the depth of the second line, lining them up in a row to check the colours is getting darker each day,(which I've been banned from doing by FS and my DH), having hcG done weekly to make sure it's going up and doing precise maths (hcg doubling every 43 hours). I've lost Frosty at 6 weeks, then with this one, I bled from 6-9 weeks, and just passed a big clot at the 12 week mark, I'm paranoid to the ninth. Luckily now I can get a doppler signal since 10 weeks and 5 days, and my friend gave me her doppler, so I can reassure myself everyday hearing bub's heartbeat getting stronger. I've had so many scans (after each bleed), I even offerred my FS to buy his old machine. LOL!

ETA: Oh I forgot to congratulate you! Big Hooray for BFP!!!

[feeb]

Perfectly normal. My first preg ended in a mc and for the next 2 I was paranoid and still am.

I think once you have 1 mc it freaks you out for the every other pregnancy as you know how easily things can be taken away from you.

Good luck with preg

[Jakabella]

Perfectly normal. I lost my first bub at 8 weeks and then I was lucky enough to get a BFP the next month and I bled off and on till I was 12 weeks - so I def knopw where you are coming form! I was allways at the toilet checking, touching my boobs all the time and I did quite a few tests to check line darkness.. Oh I have done it all!

It will get better for you - after a little while you do relax and enjoy your preg - you still worry about things in the back of your mind but it gets easier.

Kate xox