Hello everyone...glad to see you are all doing well...and those with scans coming up it must be exciting/scary and I hope they show your little ones doing just fine!
Sending you all the best.

hippymum- I was recently in here in this thread, and sadly had a miscarriage ...I just wanted you to know that in addition to being thrilled to be pregnant I had certain fears about whether I would be a good mum, how DH and I would adjust to the changes to come when a baby arrived etc...it was like for so long, all I thought about was trying to be pregnant...and the fears we used to have about how we'd be as parents etc had slipped into the background...then when I got the BFP, it was like...wow, this is all so real now...and the old fears were there too, along with the pure joy and excitement which I think goes without saying. I think it's pretty natural to be honest...maybe not for everyone of course, but for quite a few to feel some fears about different aspects of things. so dont worry about having some normal fears.
Although, I can say, that now I am back on the other side of the fence, I'd give anything just to be pregnant again, and those fears seem quite small once more, compared to the longing to have and hold a baby of my own....I think if you step back and realise the joy finally having that baby will bring, your fears might also step back for you a bit. Plus of course you will fall in love with your own child and it will all fall into place. congrats.


ontrak- welcome here...it's all so exciting for you...i I can return here soon


afm- well I pop in here because you are all such lovely ladies and some of you I have been chatting with for a while now....so it's nice to keep the contact here too, and hopefully soon I will have my own pregnancy to chat about again too. I can't talk to much about that though..I am getting a bit teary writing this, I just want it so much and while I am getting better again I am still so sad and flat...so best leave it at that for now.