Thanks Renee and Maggiepie for the welcome and reassurance. It's so nice to talk about it when so few people know....I have told a few who knew we had had a BFN last month because it really got me down and it was kinda obvious something was going on. My parents are overseas till mid August so that's been easy and DHs parents live overseas so again easy to keep secret.
Juniper HI! I remember you from previous 2ww forums over my time on BB. Didn't register you were also in Brissy. Gorgeous day to be in the parklands. Thank you for the info re. slowing once no.s get to 1000...didn't know that. Do you really think they're quite high for that period of time?? I value everyone's opinion on this...who knows better than women who have lived, breathed and read this forum :-)
To answer your question, the clinic had to defrost 2 embies (our last 2). One was apparently not looking to good, the other much better. My FS is quite against twins, he says due to escalated risks to mum n bubs. As desperate as we are to become parents, we'd like to start with one :-) HOWEVER... he said, no point in throwing embie away, might as well pop it in...it really is v. unlikely to take.
This happened last month also............. now I just assumed that those no.s were definately not high enough for twins...in fact I thought the 200 initially fell into the lower category of the QML 's weekly hCG window. As my GP pointed out the low and high figures for each week encompass a huge range.
But.... I need to ask other people's opinions/experience. Maybe I should research on BB older posts. Or will that freak me out? ? ?
Sorry for blethering on and on! Hope it makes sense. Finally, if my FET was on 12th July, how far gone does that make me. It was a natural cycle, so take it from first day of LMP? - 17th June.????
Airline, you can check out betabase for statistics on hcg level by dpo for singletons and twins. Sorry, I misread your post before, I thought you were talking dpo, not dpt. What day was your transfer? Regardless of which day, those numbers are doubling very quickly, which is a great sign!
Airline: I was told date wise to go from two weeks prior to egg pickup. I guess with a FET maybe two weeks prior to transfer? Not sure on that but if you went two weeks prior to transfer it would give you a vague idea until your dating scan. Congrats again!!! Look like really strong numbers!!
xx
cheers glenny, another fellow brisbane gal. congratulations on your bambino....17 weeks wow!
sorry to be ignorant but does the PIG stand for something?
so woke up this morning tired but feeling a bit off, so had a banana then back to 'rest'. I slept another 1 1/2 hours got up and felt off still. I think m/s is setting in. even a i eat my cereal it's an effort to swallow. i wanted a smoothie but DH is asleep from nights. will make one tonight ready for tomorrow morning!
Hi ladies
I make this post with much sadness & heartache. My scan on friday showed my precious bub had passed away. My worst fears..again. This is my 4th m/c now and am very quickly losing all hope that i will ever be a mum. I have had so many tests done last time and i have positive ANA (antinuclear antibodies) & NK cells, am really starting to think this is my problem and i fear i will keep on killing our poor babies. I feel like such a failure. I was on all the right drugs, clexane, prednisone, progesterone etc...just dont know what else to do?
If anyone has any good stories of success after multiple losses would love to hear them. I know it does happen, but i'll never know if it will happen for me. Dont know what to think at the moment, i swing from anger to fear to complete dispair. I have to go in for a D&C sometime this week, i am really hating carrying around my dead baby inside me at the moment, i just want it out!
So sorry to be a downer on this thread. I want to thank each & every one of your for your support over the last month and wish you all the very best for continued safe & happy pregnancies.
Hopefully one day i will be back, but for now i need a good break...and a few more good cries
What day was your transfer? 
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