Thanks so much ladies that makes me feel so much better i thought it could be that but of course i always think of the worst, i thinking in a way its self preservation for me, im so scared of getting my hopes up and all excited for it all to come crashing back down again so i tell my self reasons why this might not happen (you ladies would know just how i feel most prob). But i just need to wait out the week and a half for my scan as best as possible. Thanks again ladies and i hope your pg are treating you well xxxxxx