Pholi that's really nice of your friends to not ask questions. Its a long wait until your scan but think when you have it your baby will actually looks like a baby. At 9weeks they really start to take a more human like appearance.

Spoons I was always very anxious especially with my last. I'd had 5 losses before him, my HCG I thought was low (compared to my successful pregnancy before him), I had no MS and a lot of pain. I'd had an ectopic before and lost my tube and was in agony. It turned out I had 3 ovarian cysts the largest measuring 11cm but combined they got to 21cm across at their largest. They were going to operate as soon as I hit the 2nd trimester. They were just something else to worry about but at my 12week scan they had shrunk by 3cm so I didn't end up needing the surgery. I tried to be happy I was pregnancy today and tell myself that that's all I wanted and not look too much into the future but take each day at a time. Easier said then done but you do eventually get to the end and once they are born worry about something else like SIDS.