Boc~Thankyou for your advice.I know what your saying,however DH is happy for ME to know as long as i dont tell HIM.We are keeping names a secret definately,..thats if we can decide.LOL. Im not sure.maybe DH will surprise me on the day and ask the sonographer...i wish! I just want to be able to buy clothing and accessories for bub.There isnt much out there that isnt gender specific unfortunately.