Thanks everyone. I go in for a curette tomorrow and will be glad to have that behind me...and physically anyway, be ready for more body to just resume it's normal cycles, without the feeling of carrying around something which has died...

DH and I are trying to talk lots and stay open, so we stay close and don't drift apart, due to handling things differently. We've been doing well on that front....and I guess one day at a time I am dealing with it and facing the future again....and IVF and trying again. I am just so sad and flat.